You may have begun to give some thought to the long term and what you would like from your own relationships. But if you’re still holding round the psychological luggage of an old relationship, it could be hard to stop staying in yesteryear.

Relationships may have a pull on us very long after they’re over. It may be tough to accept that something which was once a really big section of your life has become becoming a memory. Likewise, unresolved problems causes it to be tough to accept that the connection is finished at all.

Clients usually tell our counsellors it feel impossible to move on that they feel stuck going over and over what happened in their last relationship and that makes. It is also a whole lot harder now to disconnect your self from painful reminders of history: merely logging on to Twitter and seeing updates or pictures of a ex can keep you heartbroken yet again. Continue reading →